The Unseasoned Weekly: May 20
Thinking about the late-twenties portal, why you need a dog, apply for an internship with the Rails to Trails Conservancy.
- Words from the other side of outdoor seasonal work-
The Check In
On Thursday, I turn 34 years old. In sum, I’ve so far loved my thirties. With no shade to friends who dread birthdays, I don’t mind them. I look forward to my birthday and all the adventures the next year will bring.
And the further I tromp into my thirties, the more I’ve been gaining perspective on the late twenties phase. I have few 35 year old friends who didn’t go through a major transformation between ages 28 and 32. Only with some distance have I begun to see my own shift more clearly.
The astro girls among us call it the Saturn return.
I’m have no doubt it features in mythology somewhere.
I just call it the portal.
As with a lot of things, I think this idea entered my vocabulary by way of Anne Helen Peterson, who uses it to describe ages 37-45 (oh good, another one)!
What happens in the late twenties portal is fast, unsettling, and sometimes catastrophic. Think volcano explosions and landslides, rather than orogeny.
A lot of people in the Unseasoned Community and in my inbox are in the portal. Values shift. Boundaries become less porous. You adopt a dog. You heal an unhealthy pattern (or five). Your identity rearranges in a way that leaves you spinning but also more grounded. You begin to touch it, just with your fingertips: A view of the rest of your life.
As the dust settles, there’s an irreplaceable peacefulness that’s so worth all the work. In my late twenties portal, I:
Worked to decouple my identity from my career
Got completely sober
Shrunk my friend group and healed my approach to friendships
Got engaged to be married
Reassessed my relationship to social media
Began gathering local LGBTQ+ rural Idahoans
…and so much more.
Have you experienced the late-twenties portal? What advice do you have for someone moving through this transformation? As always, my DMS and replies are always open for your perspectives and questions.
XX - Emerald
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In which I convince you a dog will solve most your problems…
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How I’d Apply
Note from Emerald: I went to check my links this evening before send and - ugh! - this internship I outlined below is already closed. I’m leaving it as is for the learning opportunity and for the point it illustrates: In this job market, you need to be prepared to move quickly! I’ve seen many positions without listed closing dates shut within a week, if not a few days.
The take home lesson? Don’t procrastinate on your application and ensure you have a great process in place for applying efficiently when a job listing catches your eye!
Are you working seasonally every summer, trying to break into a non-profit communications role, but struggling to gain traction? It might be time to try something new during your summer months. Rails to Trails Conservancy is hiring a Communications Design + Digital Media Intern.
Unique Value Proposition (UVP):
The whole point of an internship is to help build a technical skillset - you do not need to already be a graphic design and comms pro! Consider how to use your outdoor professional background to speak to the request that, “Candidates should be task-oriented and highly organized and possess a strong interest in the topics of health, the environment, sustainable transportation, outdoor recreation, pedestrian issues, bicycling or trails.”
Sample Resume Bullet Point (Bicycling Tour Guide):
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